mp3 wrote:Ibunshi wrote:
But whatever, back on topic, im sure that the people that train hard their entire lifes, arent one bit offended when they hear that their hard work is being extremely simplyfied into the black or white thinking of "you either can do it or you cant" making all their hard work and sacrifices worthless.. Blood sweat and tears, all pointless etc
But that goes back to my point that if they didn't have the natural inclination to be good at it, then they probably wouldn't have ever gotten interested or focused in it enough to put years of hard work into it.
And don't get me wrong, I think natural talent comes in shades of grey, not black and white. Like Neyo versus MJ. Both born with natural talent, one more/better than the other. Or MJ and Harold Miner...
people discover new interests all the time.. i was never interested in music as a kid, well not more than anyone else that just listens to music, that interest came later.. it was training itself that made me enthusiastic and passionate about it, i did not give up because of anything, i kept going and realised i could ovecome anything just by dedication.. and i believe this because i consider myself being pretty "normal" and not having any disabilities that stops me from learning things.. i dont believe natural talent for is needed for that.. andi think anyone can be dedicated, but if you arent one bit interested in whatever the subject may be, then it most likely isnt going to go well if you try..
and its not just dedication or "talent" that comes to play, its the time and where you are in your life, if the time isnt right, then you may fail simply because of that, as there may be too many things that interfere and gets in the way of your development.. if you do have a natural ability to get good at whatever it is, then you may not discover it because of things getting in the way, and even harder for someone that has to work more to reach the same level
if you arent dedicated enough, then most likely you will not want to put in the work and time either, or make the sacrifices that might be needed, you may still want it very much but wanting something a lot isnt enough, so there is a difference.. im glad that i am patient and took the time, or i would never have found out.. like it says in a part of that article i posted.. taking your time and not giving up no matter what, lets you turn something alien into being natural for you.. you shape your mind and body by a lot of practice in order to make something easier for you.. you could easily say that you, by practice and dedication can achieve and reach this natural ability that someone else may have right from the start.. a human body isnt made for kung fu, but by strong will and dedication, you can shape both your mind and body.. and yes there will be people that has it easier, but this will not stop the people that are willing to put in the time and work..
and there are no black and white rules that says you either can or you cant.. there will always be exceptions of course.. like a bass singer not being able to go falsetto, but this has not stopped others from by pure will and dedication shaping their bodies and mnds into doing things they themselves or others never thought was possible