I think the picture posted above is quite accurate...
I've recently discussed this with a friend actually. And in my opinion, the issue is that A LOT of people who practice "beat making" as a hobby, are calling it "producing music", and call themself a producer.
From a basic point of view, you are correct in this. You hit pads, they make "music", so this means you are actually the producer of that "music" in that moment. However! The same is true for a four year old kid playing around on a piano in the living room... the kid is producing "music" in that moment, but nobody would say the kid is a music producer... if you know what i'm trying to say...
So what defines if you fall into the category of a producer, or a hobby musician? I'm sure there's a million opinions about the right answer to that question.
I'll try to make a personal example that works for me:
When i was 16 years old, i did one semester of the swiss jazz school in lucerne. Prior to this i played guitar since i was 13 years old. It was a hobby, i took some lessions, nothing overly serious. Then in jazz school i had to practice 5-8 hours a day, play in an organised band, take music theory classes, etc. I love music, and i got a lot better, but i quit after one semester.
If i would have continued the jazz school (i love music, but not enough to be a professional musician), i would have spent roughly five years studying music, practicing every day for hours, etc. Once i would have succesfully done that, i would have been a certified professional musician, accepted to give music lessons at school for example, etc, blabla... you get the idea.
Now if you do the same with producing music, with "making beats", with whatever you wanna call it. It can be Karate or anything actually. But the key is time and practice (and that it is your ALL and EVERYTHING, who you ARE).... If you do what happens in jazz school, you spend years doing your thing EVERY DAY for HOURS. Then, and only then you become really good at it, and by good, i mean good enough to call yourself a professional, or in this case, a "producer".
Premo is a producer, Pete Rock is a producer, Lewis Parker is a producer, J Dilla, or the guy nobody knows who spent his time the same like those big names did. Every day, hour after hour, practicing their craft.
I make beats today like i played the guitar before i went to jazz school. I love it, but i don't do it for hours every day. I do it some days, some other days i might prefer to just play video games for hours, or i might enjoy a week of holidays and not see anything of my equipment, etc... In short, it's my HOBBY. I make beats, i'm not a beat maker. I produce music, but i'm definitely NOT a producer.
I think everybody can honestly answer this for themselves.
Besides that...
Ill-Green wrote:I hate 1thought1's family. What a bunch of know-it-alls!
No offense.
Word.
So to make this whole issue a little less complicated. You probably have making music as one of your favorite hobbies, and your family should just accept that and love you for who you are, even if they are ignorant to your favorite hobby.
Peace.

PS: This thread is almost a year old, good job...

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